My mom’s wrinkle-free face: Just 2 products

Happy Saturday! So, I’ve been doing a lot of research on K-Beauty and anti-aging products and procedures. The latest company I looked into was Glow Recipe, which was featured on Shark Tank. I’d like to try one of their masks, namely the Organic Sea Kelp Facial Sheet Mask. What I use right now is bentonite clay that I got from Bulk Herb Store ($9 for 1 pound.) It’s so cheap because it’s not in a super fancy branded container, just a bag!


If you ever wanted to see first-hand if a product works for aging skin, we could use my mom’s face as a perfect example! Six years ago when I moved back to the Midwest, I noticed that her face was very dry and wrinkly. After doing an assessment with her, we did some things that dramatically reduced her wrinkles. I wasn’t an expert but I do read a ton about skincare.

  1. No need to wash your face in the morning, which strips your face of oils. Instead, if needed, use some witch hazel on a cotton ball.
  2. We bought a bottle of Rose essential oil from Young Living, and put 3 drops into her Aveeno Absolutely Ageless night cream she already had (super affordable- get at any drugstore.) She said she saw results instantly, namely the wrinkle between her eyebrows.

That’s it! That’s all we did. I told her she needs to wear sunblock even if it’s cloudy out but she refuses, so there’s that.

After seeing her again at Christmas, I was surprised at how taut and smooth her skin looked. Matthew asked me in private if she had had some plastic surgery done. I laughed and said No, she just takes good care of her skin!

Some additional things I added to her nutrition:

Young Living’s Ningxia Red (this may seem pricey, but it’s just $1.25/day, plus we get 2-4 free bottles every year with our rewards points.)

Young Living’s Sulfurzyme powder

Garden of Life’s women’s one-a-day food-based multivitamin

She is also a regular green tea drinker and brothy soup with leafy greens and sweet potato eater. I think a lot of women think that taking all these vitamins is super expensive, but for one, it’s your dang health, and two, the aforementioned vitamins/supplements are not just for healthy skin but for your joints, energy, and overall well-being. If you want to read more about my personal skin care regimen, see this previous post. I’d like to add that in the winters, I spray my homemade glycerin makeup setting spray on my face, and it gives me an amazing dewy look as well as keeps my skin hydrated. In the summer, I lightly do two mists of it on both sides of my face (everywhere but my t-zone). And, of course, sunscreen, sunglasses, hats, and the occasional glycolic acid peel!

The rose essential oil from Young Living is pretty pricey at $244 retail, but it’s definitely worth it and really cost-effective, considering we only use 3 drops in an entire bottle of night cream, so one bottle will last you maybe 5 years. Contact me if you want to purchase, you’ll need a referral if you want the wholesale pricing!

In closing, remember,



Review: Korean beauty trick- Skin blurring for wrinkles

Hey bloggy internet pals! It’s spring break!!! After I partied it up in Cancun with my twenty year old classmates, I came home, cleaned and mopped, and sewed a skirt and wallet, but minus the Cancun part.

Here’s a photo of my dad’s amazing food. He always blesses others with his garden produce and cooking skills. He didn’t name me after Julia Child for nothin’!

Crabmeat rangoon! A little indulgence never hurt anyone… not that I’m omnipotent

In the winter and early spring my skin looks pretty ashy. I use my homemade glycerin makeup setting spray up until summer, as well as switch from my powder foundation (The Body Shop All-In-One Face Base 052) $22 to my no-paraben noncomedogenic cream foundation (Physician’s Formula Nude Wear Touch of Glow in light/medium) $14.99.

I always feel like I need a little more help with my lines and under eye area, however, so I found this article from Marie Claire that introduced me to the concept of skin blurring, which is a Korean beauty trick that blurs out lines on your face just like the blurring tool in Photoshop. Since I’m forcing myself to use the makeup that I already have, I found this DIY skin blurring recipe that uses products you probably already have in your makeup bag. I do enjoy what getting older brings, but I’ll ward off those wrinkles as long as I can, and in the process I know I’ll come to love every last one of them. Let’s be honest, it’s a struggle for many of us.

I mixed my Physician’s Formula foundation, The Body Shop transparent primer, and moisturizer.

Results: Did I look 18 again? Not to me, but I guess the true test would be to take a photo of myself. My skin did look dewy, fresh, and even.

If you try out the skin blurring recipe, let me know how it goes!

Physician’s Formular Nude Wear Touch of Glow
The Body Shop powder all-in-one face base



3 of Chip and Joanna’s Secrets to Success: from The Magnolia Story book


magnolia_story_bookI flipped when I got my pre-ordered copy of The Magnolia Story in the mail. I stayed up late reading it, and finished it in a week! When I read I really read, and when I don’t I really don’t.

Here are the three things The Magnolia Story by Fixer Upper stars Chip and Joanna Gaines (with Mark Dagostino) helped me realize about my circumstances:

our new old car
our new old car
  1. We can rejoice even in seemingly unfortunate circumstances. When Chip got thrown in jail when there was a warrant out for Joanna’s arrest, there was something so great that came out of that. (You’ll have to read the book to find out.) Yes, we are having to spend a ton of money for a new car for me this month, and my old car will rake in $150 at most at a junk yard but,
    1. I get a reliable new-ish car!
    2. I can see how God kept me safe. Both times the battery cable on my old car gave way, I wasn’t driving down the freeway when I very well could have been. Last year, I had just made my purchase at my friend’s cute store, went out to start my car to go home, but it was dead. My mechanic came out right away and long story short, the cable could have easily come undone while I was driving… and you know, a car needs a battery. I just hung out at my friend’s store drinking their tea until he was done fixing my car. The same thing happened this week where the cable didn’t come undone while I was driving, but finally just corroded so that I couldn’t start the car. Second moral of the story: don’t drive your car when your battery cable is corroded!
  2. Consistent, hard work pays off somehow. Hard work is never for nought. Chip is just like those farm boys I grew up with that worked super hard from dawn until dusk, took a quick lunch break, sometimes 10 minutes, and then it was back to the grindstone. Most of what made Magnolia (their company) what it is now is just everyday, fancy-free, unglamorous hard work.
  3. In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps. -Proverbs 16:9 It’s interesting to me that Joanna wanted to go into broadcast journalism, or perhaps take over her dad’s auto business someday, but she eventually started her Magnolia vintage and antiques store, started Magnolia Realty with Chip, hosts HGTV’s Fixer Upper remodeling show, and now every month I see her doing something new and exciting. As I get older the more I can see how often I fussed over details of life, striving and worrying, when God always took care of me. Looking back, I can see how something bad had to happen for me to have a realization to get me to the next step, like when I got a C+ in Accounting that made me change my career choices. (If you know me, you know that would be a silly career for me.)

This book was really heart-warming, hilarious, and like a manual of what NOT to do in life and business! But don’t take my word for it!

Quick One Day Striped Baby Quilt with Satin Binding Tutorial


Happy Friday all. As I write this post about baby quilts, I’ve heard twice now a conversation one of the neighbors is having.


Girl: You’re hurting me!

Different Guy: Let go of her, Frank, you’re hurting her.

(mumbling, cursing, yelling)

Guy: Why should I let go of her?!

Different Guy: *pause* Because I love her.

Then a round of applause and jazz music.

Apparently one of my neighbors is hosting a play in their apartment in the middle of the day? I was about to call the cops. Okay I just went and looked- There is some sort of garden party at the school park, and I’m sad I wasn’t invited.

Striped Baby Quilt

I have had this quilt in mind for a month or so, as my cousin had another baby and I wanted to make something special. Altogether this baby quilt takes about a full day for an intermediate sewer. Like any worthy project invested in, I don’t want to see it go, but it is going off to get loved.


Cotton batting (I used Warm & Natural 34×45 inches for a baby quilt)

Enough cotton quilt-weight fabric to make a 34×45″ quilt, prewashed

Cotton backing fabric 34×45″, prewashed

2.5″ wide binding 165″ long (I used satin bias binding)


baby quiltI tore up strips that were all 35 inches wide (1 inch wider than the batting for margin of error) and all various lengths until it measured a 46″ long quilt. I arranged the strips the way I wanted, then sewed at 1/4″. Make sure to start on the same side of the quilt top each time you sew a strip on.

Iron seams to one side.



Arrange the quilt back, cotton batting, and quilt top together, and safety pin it all together, starting in the middle. I put pins about 6″ apart.

I wanted to hand quilt with a running stitch the felled flat seam, but ain’t nobody got time for that (most of the time), so I machine quilted it together, sewing through the 1/4″ seam allowance of each quilt top strip. Make sure the edges of the backing is in place before you start sewing each section. I had one small part that had moved a little bit and caused me some trouble.

Trim the edges of the quilt.

Apply the binding. I couldn’t remember how to do it so I just watched a Fons video on Youtube. I actually did 2″ strips but 2.5″ would have been a lot easier to work with.

To finish it off, add a personalized cross-stitched label to the quilt, and voila! A beautiful handmade quilt for your loved ones made in just a day.


Practicing Presence: what family does to you when you try to be nice


Practicing Presence with Family

Practicing presence in a digital age is a tough road. I try to be anti-technology as much as I can in my personal life, because I have the sneaking suspicion that my smartphone won’t love me back. I got my very first smartphone when the iPhone 6 came out, so naturally I got the iPhone 4 (refurbished of course). That’s when I stopped journaling and reading in the mornings and before bed… In the mornings now I reach for my phone and scroll through Instagram. I’m on the road to recovery as I gave up Facebook for a month and I was able to detox from mindless Facebook scrolling AKA comparing myself to others.

This past weekend my niece Lucy wanted to go outside again to play, but once seemed enough and the adults were comfortable in their chairs. Because my husband is a kid at heart, he said he’d go outside with her and I decided to get off my duff as well. This, however, is what happens when you try to be nice…


Capsule Wardrobe: my finished embroidered Alabama Chanin tank top at Commissary at The Line

Alabama Chanin tank, GAP skirt from 2001, UO hearty leather sandals, gifted DogEared necklace

I love actually getting dressed and going into town to see old friends. I recently went to celebrate a good friend’s birthday and got tucked in by chef Roy Choi (of Kogi food truck fame) at Commissary at The Line Hotel and Break Room 86 which, hey Crystal, is just down the street from our old stomping grounds in K-Town! My, how things change. Oh, and by tucked in I mean we ate at his hotel restaurant.

Tracing the pattern
Tracing the pattern

Noemi (Yelp Elite) and The Other Helen Kim have a penchant for always knowing just the place to go to experience food and culture. Corban’s ironic cocktail came in a tupperware container so you know this place is the hip bee’s knees.

Walking to the super swank Break Room 86, I told Matthew and Corban about the time I was invited to a birthday party in Hollywood. I thought it was at someone’s apartment, so I dressed comfortably (we’re talking Midwest church outfit — loose khaki pants, loafers, and button down) and brought a large cheese platter on a stone board. I should’ve been the wiser once I saw that the “apartment” had a bouncer. I walked in to the dark room, and to my chagrin, HWood was a club with celebs and all the most beautiful people right in front of me, NOT wearing khaki pants and sweater vests I might add. I panicked and stashed my cheese platter in a corner and nonchalantly went to join my friends. I’m surprised the bouncer didn’t see my platter and point me to the service entrance.

Well, enough about swanky places that are too cool for my blood. I wore my finished Alabama Chanin tank top!!! I love it so much, I wear it every week. It’s comfortable, upcycled, handmade, and a little piece of fashion art. I didn’t finish embroidering the whole thing, but from time to time will work on it while we’re watching a movie, on a roadtrip, etc. I wore the top with a crocheted mini skirt (old) and some new grey clog-like sandals I hemmed and hawed over but love now (Kenneth Cole past season.)

Climbing Daisy stencil
Climbing Daisy stencil, Cretan stitch for the arms and neckline

Here are the items I needed to make the tank:

  • The sewing pattern from my Alabama Chanin Sewing Studio + Design book
  • Sky blue Gutermann hand quilting thread to sew it together and embroider it
  • Peach embroidery thread
  • Climbing Daisy stencil from the book.
  • An old men’s t-shirt size large to make a size medium women’s tank top. You’ll need the leftover scraps for the arm and neck binding.
  • 5mm cotton tape (embroidery ribbon) from Alabama Chanin (I haven’t purchased this yet)
  • alabama_chanin_climbing_daisy

I had SO much fun making this. I loved bringing it with me in my project bag to ballgames and constructing a garment without sitting by my lonesome in front of a sewing machine. My favorite part was sewing the felled flat seams to sew the entire top together… by hand, say what?! Sewing the tank top is really quick. Making the stencil, transferring the stencil, embroidering the arm and neck holes, and embroidering the flowers is a long process, but very meditative. It’s like knitting since it takes forever, but it’s something fun to do while you’re also doing something else like hollering at Nori Aoki at Angel Stadium.

original: Getty Images
original: Getty Images


The only thing I would change is make sure the arm holes fit just right. I think I may have stretched it out a bit before sewing it all together. The amazing thing about Alabama Chanin-style clothing is the style is so classic, like your favorite delicately embroidered cardigan. It transcends trends, so even though it’s not a plain t-shirt, you can still style the pieces with so many things. This is a key piece in my Capsule Wardrobe Experiment. I love you, new blue shirt.

Have you filled out the short Capsule Wardrobe sheet to assess your closet yet and make your life a lot simpler?

Linen and flannel bird blanket sewing project: cool in summer, warm in winter

Happy Fall 2016 everyone! All-American girls, break out the Pumpkin Spice Lattes! Or save that $25/week ($1100/yr) latte habit to invest in a house, but you know, to each her own.

Today I’m sharing with you a linen blanket I just loved creating, but first, if you want to learn about an opportunity for you to donate items to our shipping container home development for veterans in Orange County, look at the comprehensive list of needed items here!

Cotton and linen throw prayer blanket

Linen and Flannel Birthday Throw Blanket

I was perusing Pinterest and saw the loveliest hearty linen throw blankets with mitered corners and had to make one for my friend Noemi’s birthday coming up. I think blankets are such a special gift, especially if they are quilts laboriously made by hand. I remember watching my mom making thick comforters for us. My grandmother-in-law also made a quilt for every one of her grandchildren. Before Matthew and I got married, it was the only blanket he had. Now he’s married into about ten blankets- a lot of blankets for a single gal. What can I say, I’m one of those blanket hoarders. The first throw blanket I ever bought with my own money was a yellow knit Martha Stewart throw from the Cherokee K-Mart when I was in high school. I was obsessed with Martha Stewart and I just had to have this one.

I got enough fabric to make a 40×50 blanket. I looked at all of the cotton flannel and was torn between a rustic plaid and the cutesy blue bird. I settled on the bird because she loves birds, and it’s a serene fabric for when you want to feel cozy with a cup of tea on the couch. I followed Sew Much Ado’s tutorial on how to do a mitered corner blanket. I also had to watch a few videos to get it down. What made it difficult was that my blanket wasn’t square, it was a rectangle, so I had to miter the corners in a different way — the Julia way.

Mitering corners
Mitering corners

The cotton flannel is a nice warm fabric for winter, and the naturally-antibacterial-linen is great for cool summer nights. I wanted to use hemp but since it is not readily available (you know, the whole illegal thing), linen is a wonderful alternative. Years ago I read in my book The French-Inspired Home by Kaari Meng (French General in Atwater Village) that hemp sheets are amazing to sleep with since they help regulate body temperature. No more tossing and turning! Linen has the same properties, and is a very agreeable alternative.



What is a prayer blanket you ask? Well, I prayed while I made the blanket, then I went over to the church and Father K graciously walked back to the office to bless it for me. The prayers go with the blanket to offer comfort. If you are in the Orange County area, let me know if you are in need of a blanket for someone who is ill, made possible through the prayer blanket ministry.

My Case for Natural Fibers- I threw the biggest fuss when I went camping for the first time as an adult in Yosemite. I realized too late that the sleeping bag was mostly polyester, and that’s why I felt damp all night. Our next camping trip, which will be in Death Valley, I am going to sew myself a linen sheet, and just wait for the R.E.M. dream fairies to come rushing in.

Our little Linus
Our little Linus

And here is our pretty little Linus at Commissary at The Line Hotel. We had a great time celebrating this spunky gal at a fun venue. Friends for life!

Violinist & Knitter-About-Town, Mia

Creative Women Profile: Violinist & Knitter-About-Town, Mia

“When I was two years old, growing up in Austin, Texas, I saw a mariachi band playing in Whole Foods. Later at home I played dress up with a mariachi hat I had and pretended to play violin with a wooden spoon and a chopstick.  Because of that my parents got me lessons on a real one and 20 years later I’m still playing.”11217951_876733299068568_448873870817528343_o
I love me some beautiful soul-stirring violin music (admit it- you cry listening to classical music too), and I also love knitters knitting. If you’re in the DC area, make sure to attend one of Mia’s orchestra’s concerts and tell ’em Trouvés sent ya!
Knitted mittens
Knitted mittens in the round
Yarns and Knitting: I’m a big fangirl for Quince and Co. and Madeline Tosh. I’ve heard amazing things about Looped Yarn Works (D.C.) that I’d love to visit soon.
For me, my experiences in NYC and LA represent two sides of the creative process — LA felt more relaxed and artistic, the flowering creativity part of art; NYC was more driven and ambitious, the gritty side of art that drives you to get things out there in the world.  I’m really grateful to have experienced both.  I’m in DC now and I miss NYC a lot but my plans are actually angling more towards the West Coast each day.
Mia’s favorite things in NY and DC:
Music and DIYing, which at first maybe seem like separate interests but I think they’re really the same thing – creating structure and aesthetic out of empty space.
Taszo Espresso Bar (Upper Manhattan Washington Heights) – It’s a locally owned coffee shop that’s become the heart of the community.  A lot of musicians live nearby and you can’t stop by without running into a friend hanging out or on their way to a gig.
Bin 1301 on U Street (D.C.) It’s a really cool wine bar with live jazz on Saturday nights.  My favorite thing there (other than the wine) is their halloumi cheese board.
Hand knit tank top
Hand knit tank top
Cross stitching a fox
Cross stitching a fox
Knitted hoodie
Knitted hoodie
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Opportunity for YOU to build shipping container homes for veterans

What a day- what a lovely day to use your talents to help restore your community. American Family Housing just broke ground on 15 shipping container homes for veterans that will be completed THIS winter 2016, but we need your help! You can drop off the donations at American Family Housing in Midway City Orange County, California or, depending on the donation, they can pick up. See the project in the L.A. Times. 

“With great power comes great responsibility.” -U.Ben, Spider-Man

Donations Needed for Potter’s Lane- New, unused items

Landscape irrigation materials

Soil amendments




Light fixtures Quantity: 15 Hanging above dining table

Night stand lamp 15

Refrigerators 15 24” wide

Microwave ovens 15 small

Coffee makers 15 small

Dining chairs 30

Small breakfast table 15 approx. 24”x36”

Night stand 15

TV with wall mount 15 32” flat screen

Arm chair 15

Chairside table 15

Pots and Pans set 15

Silverware set 15

Towel sets 15

Trash bins 15 kitchen size

Hanger sets 15

Plate and bowl sets 15

Drinking glass sets 15

Kitchen utensil set 15

Kitchen towels 30

Pot holders 30

Alarm clock 15

Pillows 30

Full size sheet sets 15

Full size blanket s 15

Laundry basket 15


Art / Picture frames 30

Plants 30

Before and After: A redecorated living room for a young family of four on a budget

Hey all! I’m just here munching on some Fritos, bringing you the latest Trouvés news!

First off, here is my PSA to humbly request your time and talents. I am working with American Family Housing to help decorate new shipping container homes for veterans in Midway City, California. We are in need of several donations in the form of fabric, window coverings, art, frames, furniture, pots/pans/kitchenthings, labor, etc. We will be completing everything THIS November/December 2016. Please contact me if you can partner with us in this endeavor!


Recently I helped a young family of four redecorate their living room. My friend is a stay-at-home mom, so she was tired of looking at her living room that had never been fully decorated the way they wanted. Two walls were pistachio and the other two were white. There was a semblance of the beginnings of decorating, but I wanted to help bring a point of view to this Southern California residence. I helped them create a new living room for a mere $140, and they love it! She said, “The other day we were just sitting, silent, just looking and enjoying.” Here are the before-and-afters!

Before: no color, venetian blinds
Before: no color, venetian blinds



We started off by painting the walls one color so that the small room wouldn’t look so disjointed. We used a light grey color match by Behr at Home Depot. Similar: London Fog by Sherwin Williams or PPG Swirling Smoke.

The couches definitely needed some fun, colorful pillows. I took four of their existing pillows and covered them with removable pillowcases made of utility duck cloth.

Budget tip: Upholstery fabric can be pretty pricey averaging $20/yard, and with family rooms, you definitely need a sturdy upholstery fabric. Since we were working with a tight budget, I got duck cloth at $7/yd and used Tulip Fabric Markers and fabric paint (tutorials to come) to create a textile design. Duck cloth comes in a variety of colors, but I love the unbleached natural cloth. I created textile designs that weren’t too loud so they wouldn’t tire of it too quickly. These fabric markers are great because it doesn’t need to be heat-set, it leaves the fabric with a smooth hand unlike sometimes when fabric paint is used, and it goes on quickly.

I made this drop cloth rug with the heavy cotton 8×10 drop cloth from Home Depot ($11) and a Tulip Fabric Marker. You’ll want a rug pad to go under it.

I rearranged the books on their bookcase and spray painted their plant pot white. Their 2-year-old had made this lovely piece of art that they had framed, so of course I put it up in this prominent position. We kept the venetian blinds for now, but with the curtains we added, it takes the focus off of the blinds.


One thing that was like at the end of Project Runway when Tim Gunn comes in and says the designers have to make another outfit in three hours is this camera crew decided to come and follow me around all day. “Can you do that a few more times, but slower?” All in all, we had a blast.

I layered the rugs, what do you think?
Before: How do we work with this huge heater?

I love this wall! The loveseat faces this wall, so I’m excited that now they have something lovely to look at besides this heater. I offered to handletter a quote, but my friend said she likes to do that type of stuff, so she both handlettered a beautiful quote as well as made some watercolor art. I’m glad that they have pieces they made around their home that they can be proud of.  The three of us collaborated on making this wall vase with some eucalyptus that I had bought from the farmer’s market and dried in glycerin.


I made some windowpane pillows and got the other three pillows at Big Lots: 2 blue suede and 1 chevron which I covered with a linen hand-painted pillow cover. Tip: I had linen so I made a pillow cover out of it, but word to the wise- linen is not an incredibly strong fabric like duck canvas is.


You won’t believe this- after we discussed redoing their living room, they found this dresser for free! We painted it white and made it their tv console. We used frames and tchotchkes they had around the house to decorate with. I gave them suggestions of what types of pottery and metal art they could buy to decorate the shelf with, moving forward.

There are a few more things in the room that I suggested they do to update it, but  we definitely got the room to look great and pulled-together for their everyday use.

I have a lot more things in the works that I’m really excited about… so y’all come back now, ya hear?!